Saturday, 17 January 2026

Reflections on 2025 and entering 2026, wishes, plans and a letter to myself

2026 has arrived and we are now in the middle of January, I had a trip to HK just recently and it was great with amazing weather, I realised that Hong Kong does not have heaters or warmers so they go back to a cold home everyday but the coldness is bearable for a trip but if I were to stay there for long, I would get a heater. It has been tough getting back into the momentum of working as the December celebration and start of new year festive season is still strong making me lazy to get back into full working mode. I think it will take me till end of CNY to get back into it hahaha. 

Going on a trip at the beginning of the year was nice, it seemed like places weren't as crowded as compared to November and December where people were winding down for the year. I might try to make it a yearly thing if I can. 

Work 

On my work side, my job role has been transferred to the parent company where the company I worked at was bought over 6 years ago and now all corporate functions is being brought over to the parent company, the benefits are horrible where annual leave has been reduced and flexible benefits removed, even insurance coverage has been reduced.

Well, I guess jobs are not as secure as they wrecked before, happy to still have a job as I have to admit that AI is coming fast for my job role and if I lose my job, I don't think I can find one easily as the role is really easily automated. 

Not really preparing or up-skilling myself although the government and my parents are telling me to, it just seems like the AI wave is coming for everything, so what if I make the effort to upskill, would that save me? I don't know. 

I will work in this job as long as it goes and see where it brings me, lazy to go through the multiple rounds of interviews for what I think is not necessary for such an entry role job. 

Health

I guess I want to pay more attention to my mental health, I do get anxious easily and am an over thinker and worrier. I also do not have many social interactions as I work from home, hoping to improve on that in 2026 although it really takes a lot of effort on both me and my friends. 

My friends are all busier as they find their significant other and we tend to spend lesser time together and in Singapore where most relationships are transactional, it does take a lot of effort to find someone genuine and part of it is that I have got so used to being alone that sometimes, it takes a lot to let someone enter my life. 

So I want to push myself to open up and expand my social network at least for 2026, nothing too ambitious just say yes to more events and spontaneous meet ups. 

Finances

As mentioned above about my job, I think I need to really build up a more substantial emergency fund as the reality of being laid off is so real. The retrenchment benefit/package in Singapore is not even guaranteed so having a more robust liquid cash position is important for me at the moment. I actually hold really little cash as I prefer being invested but looking at the stock market, I do think that this is quite a good time to accumulate cash. Will write up another article on my plans for the portfolio in 2026. Overall finances is not a huge concern for me at the moment *touchwood* since I have no children or mortgage and health is still all right. 

2025 was not a huge year for me rather it was an autopilot kinda year, I let things happen on it's own and didn't work hard or much to achieve as it was the year I turned 30 but felt that I wanted to take a break, slow down in life and not work so hard like previous years. 

My family sure felt that as they saw me lazing around most of the time and was at one point questioning me on what I want to do with my life, I guess it is really weird in Singapore to not think about work or money or life although the younger generation is trying to change that. I think my friends could also feel the carefree attitude I had because when we met, they would talk about their work, colleagues and I would just be not talking about work as there really is nothing much going on for me on that end. 

I think I have done well in the year, it was a kinda year where I compared myself to others a lot, as I wasn't doing much in my life, it was easy to open social media and see everyone else living an amazing life but I know social media breeds negativity as comparison arises. I am hoping to reduce doomscrolling and usage on social media, hopefully get back more into putting my thoughts into words. Hoping that 2026 will be smooth and that some excitement can happen in my life too!